Cocaine Creates Fake Relationships

Dan Martin

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Dan Martin
September 08, 2023

The Daily Dosage

Hey bud,

From the age of 15, I had a relationship with drugs.

It was between the ages of 19 and 25 my cocaine use peaked.

You know those events you go to, knowing you'll get high before, during, and after?

Been there. More times than I can count.

I've taken cocaine alone, drowning in fake confidence.

Looking back, coke was the glue in most of my friendships.

But here’s the thing, these bonds were weaker than a wet paper bag.

As the sober cravings grew, I saw the real face of my addiction.

It wasn't just about feeling good.

It was a sad hunt for connection, for someone to say, "You're okay."

When the high faded, so did my so-called friends.

Drugs were our common ground.

Without them, there was nothing left.

A harsh truth? Oh yeah. But a vital one.

Coke taught me the hard way. Most of my relationships, even in my 9-to-5 life, were empty.

They were built on a chemical lie.

That painful lesson made me look deep inside.

I had to ask: What am I hiding from?

The answer: myself.

It pushed me to find real people, those who care about Dan, not just Dan-on-drugs.

Addiction is a sticky trap. But every trap has an exit.

I found mine, and you can find yours.

I'm not just grateful for breaking free; I'm grateful for who I've become because of it.

Now I'm here, armed with:

  • Tools

  • Truths

  • The will to help

The Tools:

  • Cognitive Hypnotherapy: This isn't about a swinging watch. It's about understanding your own mind and rewriting your story.

  • NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming): This is about the language of your own brain. You learn to speak it, you get to rewrite the code.

  • Accountability: A support system that's not based on substances but on human connection.

The Truths:

  • You Are Not Your Addiction: It's a part of your journey, not your identity.

  • Support Matters: Your old circle might not cut it anymore, but that doesn't mean you have to walk alone.

  • You Have Power: Even when you feel powerless, you have the strength to change. I’m proof of that.

The Will to Help:

  • This isn't just about me anymore. I’ve been down that dark road, and I’ve found my way back.

  • I want to be the signpost for others, saying: "This way to a better life."

  • With these tools and truths, I’m not just surviving; I’m thriving.

Let's make this journey count.

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