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Is this emotional manipulation?...
For a long time, I kept sales and my addiction work separate. I honestly don't know why. Sales are a big part of running my business, and I still love it.
From now on, expect to see sales-based content occasionally. I’m also adding more training and workshops to stage 3 (Perform) of the FREEDOM CREATOR curriculum.
So if that excites you, join the waitlist here.
Want to close deals on autopilot? Learn about the 6 core needs that drive every decision you make.

(Identified by Tony Robbins)
The most important needs in sales are:
Certainty
Uncertainty/Variety
Significance
Love & Connection
Growth
Contribution
Let's use a tech recruiter as an example:
1. Certainty:
She's worried about finding her next candidates
No steady flow of placements
2. Uncertainty/Variety:
She needs new challenges and opportunities
Repetitive tasks make her feel stuck
3. Significance:
She doesn't feel important at work
Others do better, making her feel less valued
4. Love and Connection:
Relationship worries stress her out
Work stress hurts her home life
5. Growth:
She's stuck in the same place as last year
No improvement in skills or position
6. Contribution:
Loves her job but can't reach top talent
Sees less skilled recruiters succeed over her
On the surface, she just needs steady placements...
BUT she also needs these emotional needs met.
Surface Needs - (where most salespeople stop):
Consistent candidates
Steady placements to stop the ups and downs
Emotional Needs - (what really moves the needle):
Certainty: Knowing when the next candidate is coming
Uncertainty/Variety: Having new opportunities
Significance: Becoming a top performer at work
Love and Connection: Partner feels secure and proud
Growth: Reaching new goals at work and in life
Contribution: Making a big impact and getting noticed
When pitching solutions, don't stop at the surface level.
Tie in both surface AND emotional needs.
Think About This (Recruiters)
Certainty:
"You’ll receive regular job updates, ensuring you never miss an opportunity"
Uncertainty/Variety:
"We offer diverse roles to keep your work exciting and challenging."
Significance:
"We connect you with top tech firms where your skills will shine and be truly valued"
Love and Connection:
"Our placements provide job stability, reducing stress and bringing peace of mind to your family"
Growth:
"We place you in roles designed to challenge and grow your skills, accelerating your career advancement"
Contribution:
"Join companies where your work makes a real difference, and your contributions are celebrated"
By understanding and speaking to these needs, your pitches will be 10x more powerful and effective.
Moral of the story:
Understanding emotions is cool.
Big love,
Dan
PS. Interested in insights like these? Pillar 3 of the FREEDOM CREATOR™️ method covers world-class sales strategies. Doors open June 3rd.