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How I helped Ben dismantle his Conviction Complex.
How I helped Ben dismantle his Conviction Complex.
Hold up... wtf is a 'Conviction Complex?'
It’s the knotted clusterfuck of myths we convince ourselves are true to justify using substances.
More on this concept tomorrow... for now though:
Ben's Conviction Complex consisted of:
1. Confidence
2. Charisma
3. Fun...
This 'Conviction Complex' is a web of intangible bull shit.
Now, we're dismantling it (here's how ⤵)
First up:
- We dug into Ben's past
- We identified childhood abandonment
- These memories shape his fear of rejection
Then, we connected his past to addiction habits
Like this:
1. Abandonment → Fear of rejection
2. Fear of rejection → Fear of being left out
3. Fear of being left out → take cocaine TO FIT IN
Resolve the fears you resolve addiction.
See how it all comes together?
In our next steps:
- We'll continue to deconstruct his Conviction Complex
- I'll equip Ben with tools to feel content & happy
↳ [WITHOUT substances]
Ben's Big Goals are:
- Total abstinence from substances
- A fulfilling life, on his own terms
- No desire to take coke
Game on. LFG.
My Guarantee to Ben:
30 days sober within 3 months or I work for free.
I'll make the same offer to you too.
Respond with "info" and I'll send you the full details of how I'll get you there.
I welcomed a new client into the community on Tuesday... that means there are 2 more space before doors close on Friday.
PS. What does your Conviction Complex consist of?
Loving you,
Dan